Summer 2016: slow + simple
Oh this life, I love it and I want it to slow down just a teeny bit more so I have time to just bask in each moment before we are on to the next one. I really do feel fulfilled though, even in the ups and downs, the rushing from one thing to the next. I have learned a lot recently just by reflecting on what God is doing in our lives and discerning what He wants me to do with what He has given me. I’ve been looking at screens less, reading the Bible and just being with my people more. Doing my best to slow down and simplify life. On “paper” it doesn’t look very slow or simple but it can be just by way of shifting our mindset, letting the Lord lead the way and really just saying “no” more often.
The last two months have been very busy but it was followed by Ben going on vacation a couple weeks ago and it was 9 days of intentional laziness. We just enjoyed each others’ company and only allowed a handful of social interactions outside of our household to keep it slow and simple. It was the perfect way to wrap up a very full summer. We are also intentionally kept the rest of this month as quiet as possible as well as we head into a new school year. Malakai just started 2nd grade and Desmond is now in full day Kindergarten.
Desmond doesn’t turn 5 until the beginning of October, just missing the September 1st deadline by 5 weeks. We decided to go through the process of petitioning for him to start school “early” and see how it went. We didn’t put any pressure on him or even tell him about it. When it came time for the mandatory IQ test in early July we just said that we told the school how smart he is and they wanted him to show them what he knew. He had a blast doing the activities and answering the questions. I really enjoyed listening to his answers from the back of the room. He had to score in the 90th percentile to qualify for early admission. We didn’t get results until a month later. While we waited to hear back we continued to be prayerful over the situation, that if he got in it would be what should happen and if he didn’t that we were meant to keep him home for another year of Pre-K. We were excited for him when he was accepted for early entrance but also a little sad to not have him at home with me all day. I will miss the easy hours of play with Desmond while Aurelia napped, and watching him run across the street to help our neighbor with yard work. I know he has been craving a structure that has been increasingly difficult to provide with baby sister in tow. Des is so ready for school, he has shown it with his eagerness to go and his excitement about it when he comes home.
Aurelia and I have 6 hours to ourselves 5 days a week. I keep saying I won’t know what to do with myself. I mean it because it will be a lot of free time opened up during her naps, but also because I have so many things I’d like to accomplish I’m not sure where I should start! Most of all I am just excited for some quality one on one time with my girl. The boys however, I will have to be more intentional about quality time with now. We plan to really slow down weekends when October hits. September is full of family birthdays, or what I like to affectionately call #SeptemberBirthdayFrenzy -Between Ben nearly half of the immediate family birthdays fall in September. When you start counting our extended family that number just gets bigger, which makes for quite the busy time!
The next 6 weeks are also going to be quite full now that both boys are in fall soccer. We have back to back practices twice a week and I don’t even know the game schedule yet but there will be 14 games over that time. I was unloading our minivan at our first double practice earlier this week, filling up the wagon with chairs, waterbottles, toys and a picnic dinner while the boys changed into their cleats and I thought to myself…I have reached official soccer mom status. It cracks me up because it’s not really my thing, but it’s theirs…so it gets to be mine now too. I love watching these kids discover what they like and what they’re good at.
So I bid a fond farewell to the long days and late nights of summer and hello to the bustle of fall!